Your advice please??

He is playing you whether you like to hear it or not. He is keeping you in a convenient position and when he wants to play, he calls and at other times, he does his thing. Get wise and get away from this clown. You are not going to find love with a guy like this. You are going to have a stripper boyfriend. You give something nice to him and he leaves and when he feels like he wants to see you, he comes around and so on and so on. THere are guys out in this world who will be glad to have a girl who wants to be with them. Get rid of this deadbeat and find a real man.